Father's advice

What A Father Told His Daughter A Day Before
Her Wedding
My Daughter, tomorrow you will stop bearing my
name. You will be happily married to the man
you love. Dont miss me because I have fulfilled
my purpose, it is now time for you to start
fulfilling yours.
From your childhood, I have raised you well by
the grace of God but before you say I do, there
are few things I need to tell you about living with
a man and being married.
Do you remember when you wrote your WAEC
and JAMB exams? You came to me and I gave
you 20,000 naira for the registration? Well, even
though I gave it to you, the money was not mine.
I know you always thought I paid the fees. The
truth is, I was broke... but your mother gave me
the money. She could have given it to you but
she decided to give it to me to give to you.
Support your husband. Some times things will
get tough... he will be frustrated. Even though he
acts tough, in his mind he has fears... he fear
you may not value him anymore because he has
fallen. That is the time to get behind him and
support him!
The best way to show your husband you love
him is to respect him! You may argue with him,
you may disagree but at the end of the day, let
him know he has your respect.
Do you remember the day I screamed at your
mother? What did she do? She was quiet! Do you
also remember the day she screamed at me?
What did I do? I was quiet! My daughter learn to
be quiet sometimes when your husband is angry.
When one person is hot, the other should be
cool. If two are always screaming at same time,
that is how big problems start in marriage.
The first thing to know about your husband is his
favorite food! If he has more than one then keep
them at the back of your mind. Dont let him ask
for it, always prepare it for him.